4 Reasons You Remain STUCK
Despite your outstanding creativity, gorgeous future, compelling achievements and one-with-all spirituality, you may STILL feel you are not moving ahead the way you’d like to. Here are four reasons you may be at a standstill:
For planning and teaching children, expectations have a purpose. However, they need to occupy a rightful place instead of preoccupying you to the point of stagnation. Otherwise they can be the enemy of self-growth.
Artemis Limpert has a series called “Educate Your Expectations.” I was introduced to the course several years ago and have all the audio MP3s. Today, the course costs as much as $197 online.
HealMobile services for a three-to-12 month commitment costs more, but you get more value with golden keys to unlock why you may be stuck and what to do about it.
For now, check in. You will know your expectations need re-education if:
- you feel let down and unhappy when your efforts don’t turn out as planned or as you hoped
- you continually revisit and finetune goals, objectives and actions to reflect your present reality
- you listen to and get stopped by others’ assessments, as if they know YOUR TRUTH
I thought I had released impatience until I realized I still harbored road rage. This came to light because a worker at my dollar store and I were conversing about how people can’t change What Is about their challenges and have to accept them. He said,
“So true, when I’m riding in a car I cannot understand why drivers get mad at traffic and other drivers. Absolutely nothing they can do about it, so why get upset? Getting bent out of shape affects no one but them and is a waste of energy.”
I immediately heard the message for myself as a driver of holistic health. When driving my car, I still wonder how some other drivers can be so…well, themselves. My self-control is on my sleeve. This seems to be my Final Frontier of developing patience and its corollary, steadfastness.
You can identify your own Final Frontier. Self-assessment helps you appreciate progress you are making in other areas of your holistic health journey. HealMobile services are particularly helpful in this regard.
Whereas impatience is one expression of attitude, this Reason You Remain Stuck is its own category. Your attitude is reflected in your speech pattern and demeanor or vibration. Online, this word means:
a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior. “she took a tough attitude toward other people’s indulgences”
NORTH AMERICAN informaltruculent or uncooperative behavior; a resentful or antagonistic manner.“I asked the waiter for a clean fork, and all I got was attitude”
From these definitions it’s clear your attitude can be how you act around or with people, or it can refer to your physical and mental posture. My mother used to say, “It’s ALL attitude.” I was an adult before I grasped what she meant.
Attitude will keep you stuck if it remains unchanged by life’s lessons.
For example, I married two different men who were exactly the same. Jokingly, I used to say, “I did 25 years, then 7 years, for a total of 32 years,” as if I was in prison. Nothing could be further from the truth, but I had not learned from the first experience, and had to repeat it.
My attitude towards men had not changed, AND I was impatient.
What are you not accepting as new knowledge, that begs for a new attitude towards what you want? Are you a veteran of your experiences and can you share from them? How does your attitude express the wisdom you gained?
The Ifa oracle of the Yoruba says, True wisdom only comes through the integration of thought and emotion. (Iba’se Orisa). A fluid attitude is a perfect expression of this.
Everyone is operating at their own level of belief and understanding, and you remain stuck when life has to be “my way or the highway.” Your expectations, patience and attitude, the first three reasons for being stuck, actually reflect your beliefs, and stuck beliefs have also been called frozen thought patterns. Many have said religiosity –being too religious or stuck in beliefs about one’s religion– is the same thing.
Your beliefs should enable you to adapt to any change or transition. When they do not, you may possess “limiting beliefs. ” Spiritual (and Internet) gurus teach that limiting beliefs are negative because they keep you stuck. Unfortunately, most gurus want you to follow them and replace your current spiritual belief with a belief in them.
Be it here known that spiritual belief is only for the God-Concept you hold paramount. This is your religion and has nothing to do with others’ opinions. In other words, your relationship to a God-concept, by whatever name you call it, is only for YOU to define and hold sacred.
I have my beliefs and you have yours. Notwithstanding your beliefs, I am listening for the plea –or profound message– of your Higher Self at the highest horizon. (This is how I envision relationships.)
My beliefs guide me in listening to you and your beliefs with love, compassion, and universal consciousness. My beliefs help me to navigate the stuck feelings or blockages that may be markers on your subconscious blueprint.
The HealMobile concept may also be a marker on your blueprint. Through the services I can render, I am here for you. Contact me confidently.
–Rev. Niamo Nancy Muid
Here are nuggets from my belief system. These verses help me to keep my religion for only GOD:
HQ The Heifer 2:62; The Feast 5:69
Surely, those who believe, those who are Jewish, the Christians, the converts; anyone who 1) believes in GOD, 2) believes in the Hereafter, and 3) leads a righteous life, will receive their recompense from their Lord; they have nothing to fear, nor will they grieve.
HQ The Prophets 21:105-108
105. We have decreed in the Psalms, as well as in other scriptures, that the earth shall be inherited by My righteous worshippers.
106. This is a proclamation for people who are worshippers
107. We have sent you out of mercy from us towards the whole world.
108. Proclaim, “I have been given divine inspiration that your god is one god. Will you then submit?
HQ Pilgrimage 22:15 (paraphrase)
If anyone thinks that GOD cannot support them in this life and in the Hereafter, let them turn complete to heaven, and sever (dependence on anyone else). They will then see that this plan eliminates anything that bothers them.
HQ Pilgrimage 22:32
Those who reverence the rites decreed by GOD demonstrate the righteousness of their hearts
HQ Light 24:41
Do you not realize that everyone in the heavens and the earth glorifies GOD, even the birds as they fly in a column? Each knows its prayer and its glorification. God is fully aware of everything they do.